Exactly you know that you can get pregnant at any time. Especially with the first. Where this immutable adolescent confidence that for the first time - do not count, I have no idea.
Getting pregnant on the first try
At the reception, mother and daughter. Girl 14 years old, bright, tall, blonde. "What worries you? "-" Stomach hurts her, "- said the parent.
We find out that stomach hurts a month, not much, occasionally, aching pain, short episodes, urinating more learning, but painless.
- This is an inflammation of her, too, so I was. I chill somewhere - suggests his mother.
- Last month when we started?
- I do not remember - shrugs girl.
- Oh, Doctor, what's the difference when they were menstruating. Normal her monthly. She inflammation Well, you see it?
Good girl, dancing is involved, meets a boy ("Oh, they have there is nothing serious! We need to learn!), Sex life does not live.
When viewed from the uterus, finding fault, slightly increased and the right ovary cyst with the obvious. I think that's the reason for the pain.
- It is urgent to do an ultrasound.
- What for? She w inflammation! And I have to work - lamenting mother.
- I do not understand everything, ultrasound is necessary to make sure, and urgently.
Mom ran to work, going to do ultrasound alone. Girl lying on the couch, frightened little eyes gleaming. On the screen man by 9 weeks of pregnancy.
- Wow, what a great already! Another Mary?
- What is there the Virgin Mary - objection uzist - she already hard lives!
- Twice - squeaked from the couch.
- A birth control, how?
- Nothing.
- Why?
- So after all become pregnant the first time impossible - conviction, tell me reproachfully from the couch.
Exactly you know that you can get pregnant at any time. Especially with the first. Where this immutable adolescent confidence that for the first time - do not count, I have no idea. Practice suggests that pregnancy is often no time is required, relatively innocent enough games and petting.
- Come on, phone, child, will be to call your mom. You have not yet reached the age of "medical confidentiality", so that you will take.
I am often such talk. I try to speak slowly, pausing. If the mother has time to include fantasy, a message will appear on the pregnancy deliverance.
Period 9 weeks does not leave much room for maneuver. Decisions must be made by parents. The girl has not reached the age of consent, criminal prosecution of young men is quite real.
In such stories are always a lot of tears. A mother with three children, this - the eldest. Mom girl walked up to me crying the whole week.
- Doctor, you know, the fourth child of our family is not overeat. But it will bear? And to give birth? She's still a child. Well, let's say I make a child over. The boy's parents agreed to fund all, I have talked with them. The school also decide - go to the externship.
- And she wants that?
- She sobs for several days. He says that he will do as I say.
- It used to such obedience.
- It is on the Internet has just been reading that her baby will get bit by bit, the handle-legs there ... You know, doctor, I am afraid to put pressure on it. She did not forgive me, if that. But if I lose it ... What do you do, Doctor?
On this issue there is no right answer. But he did not need anyone in this family. They made a decision and make it a reality. The fourth child is one "not to overeat," but for pregnant first child should be carefully observed, weighing all the risks.
It is a good mother and a good daughter. They completely trust each other, know how to forgive and overcome difficulties. I believe that this story is a long and mostly happy.
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